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what is Encouragement?
Think about the word 'eulogy'.  it comes from the greek 'eu' and 'logos' meaning "good speech".  We might update the greek by calling it "high praise".  In our culture, you only get a eulogy when you're dead.  for too many, the greatest statements ever made about the value of their life will be spoken after their death.  encouragement is about investing life into life with the power of the tongue.

the force of a spoken word cannot be overstated.  there are many ways to say things.  a text.  a phone call.  a written note.  through all these options, there is no communication stronger than a face-to-face verbal word.  when this method of communication is used to deliver encouragement, the results are phenomenal!

encouragement, like a eulogy, should be aimed at a persons value, contribution, purpose and significance.  there's always room for "nice shirt" but we all need more than superficial pats on the back.  think about the deeper core needs that we all hold like "am i wanted here?" or "are my ideas respected?".  while we might pepper in a "nice shirt" here and there, we'd never say it at their funeral, in a eulogy.  The deeper values of a human life, common to funerals, should be spoken in the day to day.  "I like spending time with you."  "You are such a creative person."  "I'm impressed with your ability to lead people."
A group without Encouragement
How do I know if my group lacks encouragement?
  • jealousy is visible
  • competitive language increases
  • admission of failure is avoided at all cost
  • discouraged or depressed members shrink or stop coming
leading in encouragement
encouragement does not grow on accident.  if your small group struggles in this area, a plan is needed.  While the four training areas will be helpful in the long run, here are some quick ideas:
  • verbally affirm deep human needs
  • express support when encouragement does happen
  • ask for help from naturally encouraging members
  • lower the temperature on competition and fear of failure
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